I will never understand

I will never ever understand the oppisite sex...I will never understand what makes a friendship with a man and a women so threatening. Wake up men it is now 2010 and the women that we know as our foremothers taught us that it is okay to have relationships that are plutonic.

The word date does not exsist anymore. It is now hanging out and getting to know each other. The definition has now taken over the word.

I will never understand why women can not be friends with men that find themselves in their lives. According to most men we are suppose to be rude and ignore the other man because...well simply we are taken and now have no right to be talking to other men. The reason I was given lately was they know what other men are up to. They are all like snakes in the grass, should not be trusted.

To that I say its a load of brown baby poo.

My mother raised me to be well rounded and friendly. My mother was married and had friendship with many men. She was a biker at heart and the club she belonged to was mostly brimming with...well you go it...men.

This is my statement I will no longer be chained to the closed mindedness of a man. either they except that all people in my life mean something or they need to get out of the way.

Kisses AL

Oh happy day!

So I rested my nonexsistant blogging skills for a few days. Here's what is happening in my backyard.

Everyone in my classroom, teachers that is, is sick in some way. I now really dislike the fact that I still can't fit into any clothes but it is the first real week.

I have also come to terms with some men do find me attractive. However, I am scared of selling myself short...dunno why I feel that way. I plan on settling, suppose it is just jitters.

It has also come to my attention that people no longer read and conversation is a dead skill. I have also come to terms with the fact that texting a flirting is not something I am good at. Though my bestie is a master. YAY! Bestie. I am going to keep my head up nothing to get alarmed about it is the first week and I did get asked on a date.

I still just want to have the healthy body not one full of cellulite and nasty feelings. I have decided that next week is the when I hit my work outs extra hard. Its time that I stuck to a committment.

Out like trout,

AL

Sooo today is January 4, 20010

I love the snow, not for the cold or destruction on my behalf but the solitude and silence. In my life there is not enough silence. I know that is why I cook alot. When others are going out to a resturant I am in my kitchen cookin it culinary style.

One another note:

I miss my other bestie...

I hate living in an apt.

I want to be able to go out without my children.

I would like to sleep past 8:30 AM on a weekend...and be rested.

I want to lose weight so I feel better.

I would really like my bed for to sleep in right now.

I want men to realize that women do feel emasculated though we dont have testastrone.

Well back to work all is well in the world of Allana and this was just a deep breath :)